Sex Education in India: The need of the hour

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Sex Education in India: The need of the hour

                          We are living in the 21st century and talking about sex is still a taboo in India. People are still not open about the sex education. That is why, sex education in India is the need of the hour. According to WHO, “Sexual health is considered to be a state of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being in relation to sexuality and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity” Lack of sex education can lead to severe health, economic and social consequences.
There are various reasons why sex education is still not implemented in our country
Cultural differences
India is a place which has various cultures and traditions. There are conservative families in India who don’t feel appropriate to discuss any topic related to sex with their children. The reason is that they feel that it is not in the Indian culture and people are getting easily influenced by the western culture in which it is alright to talk about sex.

Early Marriages by the family
                                    Child Marriages is still prevalent in the Indian society. This is not only the case with the rural areas but also with the urban areas of India. According to UNICEF, 240 million women alive in India today were married before the age of 18. According to the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, the age to marry for a girl is 18 and for a boy is 21. Despite the act, In India, 18% of the girls are married before the age of 15 and 47% of the girls before 18 years of age. The consent of the girls is rarely asked. Early marriages result in the discontinuity of education of girls. The girls then drop out of the school. Girls are also forced to reproduce early. That is the reason that 36% of children and 64% of adolescents are pregnant or already mothers. If there is a forced marriage before 18 years of age, the girl would not have sex education and knowledge about the contraceptives.

Lack of sex education can arose various health, economic and social issues:
Teenage Pregnancy
India is one of the highest in number of reported adolescent pregnancy. This teenage pregnancy can take a heavy toll on a girl’s body. If the child is born out of the wedding lock, parents usually force the girl to do an abortion. Abortion is legal in India but for the teenagers whose body is not actually prepared to carry a child can have life threatening effects on the girl’s body. The girl can also undergo form depression.  62 out of every 1000 pregnant women are teenagers. That is why imparting sex education becomes essential.

HIV AIDS
About 26% of Indians are infected with HIV/AIDS and still there is no sex education in India despite these shocking facts. Young adults and children should be made aware that unprotected sex with one or more than one known or unknown person can result in HIV AIDS. HIV AIDS can be transmitted if a person comes in contact with infected sexual fluids. According to statistics released by Government, 31% of the AIDS cases comes under the age group of 15-29.

Sexual Abuse

A study commissioned by the Indian Ministry of Women and Children Development and carried out by UNICEF and Prayas, a non-governmental organization, interviewed 12,247 children and 2324 young adults in 13 Indian states. The study revealed that a shocking 53% of children between t 5 -12 years of age have been sexually abused in India. That is nearly more than half of the children.
If sex education is not done children will not be able to recognize what happened to them.

 Parents, teachers, media and the Government can help to impart sex education among the children and the teenagers.
Role of parents in imparting the sex education
                               As children come into their adolescent age, parents should have a more open conversation about the puberty, menstruation, sex education and pregnancy. However, a lot of parents in India do not do so. According to a study, 42-52% of youth feel that they do not have adequate knowledge about sex. Some studies have also shown that parents do not think it is their responsibility to impart sex education and that the children would know on their own after their marriages.
                       
              Another survey of Mumbai colleges showed that 88% of the male students and 58% of the female students had received no sex education from parents. However, parents should understand it is their utmost responsibility to ensure the safety of their children. Parents should discuss with their ten kids about the problems they are facing. If parents feel that their children are feeling awkward to have such conversations, they can take their children to the trained counsellors. Counsellors can counsel the children about the various issues, effect regarding the sex education.

Role of schools and teachers in imparting the sex education
               
         Students spend most of the time in schools. The teacher plays a pivotal role in developing the personality of students. According to WHO, sex education should be imparted to children who are 12 years and above. Schools in India should take up the responsibility to educate the students about the good touch and a bas touch. They should teach about the use of contraceptives and other protection measures.

                  According to Dr. Archana Sharma, a clinical psychologist from Delhi, “Sex education falls under the category of health education”. Thus when the schools can provide the education of health and hygiene, it becomes essential that they also give sex education because it is a part of health education.

Role of the Media
Media is an effective tool which can be used to positively influence about the sexual behaviour among the teenagers. Media can help in positively changing the attitude of the youth.

Role of the Government
                  Sex education is topic on which not only the parents and teachers but also the government has to work on it. In 2007, The Indian Government came up with the Adolescent Education Program. It is an initiative to empower the young people with the appropriate information, the right age and inculcate the positive attitude about the topic. It also aims at imparting adolescent reproductive and sexual health concerns.
                   In 2007, when sex education curriculum was promoted by India's Ministry of Human Resource Development, it arose to a lot of controversy. Many people believed that educating the youth about sex and its effect on health would corrupt the young minds. They also believed that it is against the traditions of our Indian culture. Additionally, they also believed it will result in irresponsible behaviour amongst the youth.
                 After lots of discussions and debates, they finally argued that sex education is a western concept and it has no place in India. They also said that India should not be forced by these western construct. 
   The final outcome was many of the Indian states including Maharashtra, Karnataka, Goa, Kerala, Gujrat, Rajasthan, Madhya Pradesh and Chhattisgarh banned the sex education program.

               As we are moving ahead, people will become more liberal and open. The health, social, economic and psychological impact of sex education should be addressed. That is why, banning of sex education program is not an option.

Common myths about sex education

Myth 1: A lot of people believe that sex education encourages sexual activity in young adults.
But the fact is, sex education helps to increase the awareness about sexual health. It teaches the difference between a good touch and a bad touch. It is also seen that sex education is beneficial in reducing the incidence of high sexual behaviour among the children and youngsters.

Myth 2: Sex education is not for children.
Urbanization has led to imparting more liberal ideas among the people of today’s generation. Therefore, it is essential that parents and teachers should teach their children about sex education.

Benefits of the sex Education
1.   An effective sex education program can help in lowering the teenage pregnancy rates in India.
2.   The students who attend sex education programmes learn about the benefits of using contraceptives and protection measures before indulging in any kind of sexual activity.
3.   It will provide the children and young adults appropriate information on sexual health.
4.   It can help in giving a better life for women.
5.   HIV/AIDS can be controlled to a certain extent.

What is the solution?
Parents should take up the responsibility to give sex education to their children. Parents should take their children to counsellors and doctors for their advice. Schools can include sex education in their curriculum. Schools can also setup documentaries which can be beneficial to the students. Teachers should talk more openly with the students. The NGO’s should go the schools and raise awareness about the issues.  The Government of India should look at the problem and the repercussions that it causes on the physical, emotional and psychological health of the children. The Government can come up with the rules and acts to raise awareness about sex education. People of India should try to understand that sex education is not something that violates our Indian culture and should take initiatives for sex education.

Conclusion
Sex Education is thus the need of the hour to give better future for the youth of India.

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